The Fostering Team

What to Buy to Prepare for the Arrival of a New Foster Child

Any child or young person living in your home should feel safe, comfortable, and cared for. To be properly prepared for someone new arriving, you may need to buy some essentials before they arrive. We provide you with generous weekly allowances so you’re able to buy everything your young person might need – and more! You can find out how much you can expect to receive here. Some children may arrive with very few belongings and others may arrive with some items, including favourite items that provide comfort. Of course, every child is unique, and their needs may vary, but below are some items to consider buying when preparing your home for a new foster child.

Bedroom Essentials

A foster child needs their own space where they feel safe and comfortable. Make their bedroom warm and inviting with:

  • A bed with fresh bedding (duvet, pillows, and sheets)
  • A nightlight for comfort (even if they don’t need it in the long run, it’s nice to have the option!)
  • A wardrobe or chest of drawers for their clothes
  • Blackout curtains or blinds to help with sleep
  • Soft toys (just a couple is fine, some children may be overwhelmed by too many)
Toiletries and Hygiene Products

Having a variety of toiletries available is crucial. You should provide them with their own:

  • Toothbrush and toothpaste
  • Shampoo, conditioner, and body wash
  • Hairbrush/comb
  • Deodorant (if they have reached puberty age)
  • Sanitary products (if fostering someone who may need them)
  • Towels and flannels
Toys, Books, and Entertainment

Providing age-appropriate entertainment can help ease their transition and offer comfort and entertainment:

  • A few books
  • Colouring books and pens
  • Puzzles and board games
  • A journal or notebook for children who may like to write down their thoughts
  • Access to TV shows, films, or games
School and Learning Supplies

Education is important, so having some basic school supplies ready is helpful:

  • Notebooks and stationery (pens, pencils, erasers, etc.)
  • A school bag
  • A lunchbox and water bottle
  • Any required school uniform (if known beforehand)
  • Tags/stickers to label their belongings
Safety and Wellbeing

Making sure your home is safe and secure is a key part of fostering:

  • A first aid kit
  • Child safety locks if required
  • Contact numbers for support services easily accessible
  • A quiet, calming space for moments when they need alone time
Clothing and Personal Items

It may be difficult for you to be able to buy clothes ahead of time, without knowing the gender, age, size, etc. of the child who is staying with you. But these are some of the things you may eventually need to buy:

  • Everyday clothes (t-shirts, trousers, etc.)
  • Pyjamas and slippers
  • Socks and underwear
  • Seasonal outerwear (coats, gloves, hats, etc.)
  • Comfortable shoes
  • Somewhere to keep their belongings (a backpack or small suitcase for example)
Food and Mealtime Essentials

Buying these ahead of time may also be difficult, as every child has different dietary needs and preferences. But having a stocked kitchen with familiar foods can help with feeling more at home:

  • A selection of healthy snacks
  • Breakfast options like cereals and fruit
  • Stocked cupboard to cook a variety of nutritious meals
  • A set of plates, bowls, and cutlery just for them
Specialised Items Based on Age and Needs

Each child is unique, and their needs may vary. If possible, ask about their preferences or special requirements in advance. For example:

  • A baby or toddler may need a cot, nappies, bottles, and baby food
  • A teenager may appreciate more independence with personal choices, like selecting their own clothing or toiletries

Whilst every effort should be taken to provide children with all the items they need, a warm welcome, a listening ear, and a home filled with kindness are just as important as physical items. You will be provided with generous weekly payments to support these purchases.

By ensuring you have the basics ready, you can create a safe and supportive environment that helps your new foster child settle in and feel truly at home.

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